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d3 boards => Relationships => Topic started by: NaTaS on May 04, 2003, 05:07:21 PM
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Have been going out with a great girl for 4 months and its been cool, but the only problem is all we've done really is kissing and a small bit more. The other day i asked her about her previous (sexual) experiences with guys and she freaked. it was pretty awkward after that cuz i felt like i had done something terrible. :-/ do u think it was a stupid thing to ask about? ???
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4 months and only first base...yes you are doing something definitely wrong :P
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I think it was a perfectly normal question to ask your girlfriend, but there's obviously something that bothers her and she doesn't wanna talk about. You could ask her if there's anything she wants to talk about, but I wouldn't pressure her into talking cos it could mean you lose her. Maybe she'll open up when she feels a bit more comfortable?
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Nope, 4 months is a reasonable time to be going out. You should be able to openly ask her anything that is on your mind
Don't feel bad that she didn't take it too well. Maybe she has some issue regarding her past (Don't want to put ideas into your head here, but perhaps something bad happened to her).
Just reassure her that she can talk to you about anything. At least you tried and made the effort.
Failing that, finish with her and find someone else unless you can deal with it.
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Nuthin new here. I'll let you guys know if how things go. Thanks for the advice.
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Any update? I need to live vicariously.
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maybe she was a stripper :o
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She wasn't a stripper. Things are still iffy. Maybe it's time to move on.
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You don't sound too into her anymore. Sounds like it is time to move on. The sooner the better because it will be easier on both of you.
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moved on and am enjoying the summer 8) no more serious relationships for a while.
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you have done the right thing! just enjoy life while it lasts :P