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d3 boards => Relationships => Topic started by: NaTaS on May 04, 2003, 05:07:21 PM

Title: GF issues
Post by: NaTaS on May 04, 2003, 05:07:21 PM

Have been going out with a great girl for 4 months and its been cool, but the only problem is all we've done really is kissing and a small bit more. The other day i asked her about her previous (sexual) experiences with guys and she freaked. it was pretty awkward after that cuz i felt like i had done something terrible.  :-/  do u think it was a stupid thing to ask about?  ???

Title: Re: GF issues
Post by: TranceInMotion on May 07, 2003, 08:55:40 AM

4 months and only first base...yes you are doing something definitely wrong :P

Title: Re: GF issues
Post by: ^chloe^ on May 08, 2003, 04:14:02 PM

I think it was a perfectly normal question to ask your girlfriend, but there's obviously something that bothers her and she doesn't wanna talk about.  You could ask her if there's anything she wants to talk about, but I wouldn't pressure her into talking cos it could mean you lose her.  Maybe she'll open up when she feels a bit more comfortable?

Title: Re: GF issues
Post by: twiloalum on May 11, 2003, 07:14:09 AM

Nope, 4 months is a reasonable time to be going out. You should be able to openly ask her anything that is on your mind
 
Don't feel bad that she didn't take it too well. Maybe she has some issue regarding her past (Don't want to put ideas into your head here, but perhaps something bad happened to her).
 
Just reassure her that she can talk to you about anything. At least you tried and made the effort.
 
Failing that, finish with her and find someone else unless you can deal with it.

Title: Re: GF issues
Post by: NaTaS on May 14, 2003, 05:49:45 AM

Nuthin new here.  I'll let you guys know if how things go.  Thanks for the advice.

Title: Re: GF issues
Post by: twiloalum on May 31, 2003, 11:04:39 AM

Any update?   I need to live vicariously.

Title: Re: GF issues
Post by: spazoid on June 04, 2003, 02:39:34 PM

maybe she was a stripper  :o

Title: Re: GF issues
Post by: NaTaS on June 12, 2003, 08:05:13 AM

She wasn't a stripper.  Things are still iffy.  Maybe it's time to move on.  

Title: Re: GF issues
Post by: ^chloe^ on June 16, 2003, 11:53:17 AM

You don't sound too into her anymore.  Sounds like it is time to move on.  The sooner the better because it will be easier on both of you.

Title: Re: GF issues
Post by: NaTaS on July 07, 2003, 09:55:38 AM

moved on and am enjoying the summer  8)  no more serious relationships for a while.

Title: Re: GF issues
Post by: Man@Work on September 02, 2003, 02:49:50 PM

you have done the right thing! just enjoy life while it lasts :P